Being in a relationship for a long period of time, there's normally a point when things seem to get a little dull in the bedroom. Now we're not saying you need to get as creative as we did in 10 Nights, of course if you and your partner feel compelled, by all means don't let us stop you, but a little creativeness might be just the thing to heat up your nights!
You know your partner better than anyone, at least if you're sharing a bed we're going to hope you do! That being said, always take into account his or her comfortability in sexual relations before embarking on any new type of sexual play. The ideas we're going to share with you are a watered down version of the sex scenes in 10 Nights, but like we said earlier if you want to go for the gusto, have at it.
To make this a sensual experience, men you need to stand outside the dressing room and get your lady to come out and model each of the outfits for you that you've chosen. Remember gentleman, you know your partner well, so if she's not comfortable in a bathing suit at the beach, she's probably not going to be really into modeling lingerie in public, so consider that before you decide on clothing choices.
While Leah and Rhett had a little sexy in the dressing room after they both got turned on from the experiences, there are laws against that so we recommend taking it home or to a hotel after your little fun with shopping. Dressing your lady and remembering to tell her how sexy she looks wearing your choices, can be a hot experience!
That being said, talk to your partner and calmly suggest that you'd like to enjoy a sensual night and bind their wrists or blindfold them. Explain to them that if at any time they feel uncomfortable they can tell you to stop and you will. The biggest thing about this sexual fantasy is knowing that you can trust the person who is in control. Being tied down or blindfolded for the first time can be an exciting yet overwhelming feeling for some people, so give reassurance the entire time. Making love this way is a huge turn on for some people and if you find you both enjoy it, then by all means experiment more!
A healthy relationship is always about being able to talk to your partner honestly without fear of being judged. Even in the vanilla world (a relationship without BDSM), safe, sane, and consensual should be three words that are involved in your sex life. Respect each other and explore the beauty of your passion.
We wanted to shock readers with a glance into the world of BDSM with 10 Nights. It was written for mature readers and shouldn't be read by any one under 18 or whatever age is legal in the country where you live. Rhett is what we would lable as an extreme Alpha Male Dominant, and while there are certainly those types of Dominants out there, they are not the norm. Purchase 10 Nights from the following booksellers: