Okay so I've got your attention and I just had to say it! If you've read my books (and if you haven't well shame on you) then you know that I like strong male characters and women completely overcome by the strength of the man. There is something just compelling about a woman being so overcome by feelings of desire and a male who has a strong set of shoulders that she can lay all her worries upon. There's a huge difference between a man who wants to love and protect and a jerk that only knows how to bully though, let me explain.
While I enjoy men with strong alpha-male tendencies there is a line that should never be crossed, at least in my opinion. An incredible man has strength, not only in body but in mind as well. When his true desire is to love, honor and protect the woman he adores, that to me makes him a hero. It might sound old-fashioned, and maybe my views are outdated, but the truth is that's what I find absolutely compelling.
Now do I think a women should be sitting home bare-foot and pregnant waiting on her man to get home? No way! Women have brilliant minds and the ability to do anything they set their mind to. At the same time though I like the idea of looking like a lady and pleasing my man with the small things that let him know just how much I cherish him. The wonderful thing today is you can still be a woman and be treated like a Queen in his arms.
So back to the title of my post, Feminism sucks. I like being my gender and don't plan on hiding it to pretend I'm a man. First I don't have to, and second why in the world would I want to? Granted I'm not wearing designer dresses on the lake or during baseball practices, but when it comes to pleasing my man you can darn sure bet I'm going to look my best. I expect the same from him. When we have our special nights, with five kids those are rare indeed, I want him looking his best and taking the time to make sure he's pleasing to my eyes as well.
The way I see things, I'm not a woman trying to live in a man's world. I'm a woman who's happy being who I am and the world is at my feet without pretending to be something I'm not. So that's just my whole two cents on Feminism... take it with a grain of salt. While you're trying to decide if you want to send hate mail on this blog post, take a few minutes and check out my books on Amazon. Seriously it's hard to get those great clothes he likes to see me in without you buying a book or two *winks*