Wednesday, July 30, 2014

How Can Erotica Help Allow Fantasies to Make Guest Appearances in Your Life?

I think I would be correct in saying that we all have fantasies that we keep tucked away in an imaginary file cabinet in our minds to access when a little extra fuel needs to be thrown onto the flame of passion. That guy at the office who smells so good and has the look of mischief in his eyes, the actor who you swoon over (and watch that scene in Magic Mike over and over just to see his moves), or that book boyfriend that you wish they could come up with a way to make him real or clone him so he can be yours.

Anyway you look at it, fantasies add pleasure to life and they get to either stay just in your head or if you have an adventurous enough husband/boyfriend/lover, you can share them and live out the fantasies in real life.

Along comes Fifty Shades of Grey and suddenly ‘game on’, boys! Women are crawling out from behind their veil of secrecy into the public eye proclaiming their desires to take a walk on the wild side. “Kinky” is now somewhat trendy. Who knew?

I find it fascinating how erotic literature and the more explicit romance novels have allowed women who normally were fairly reserved in their bedroom activities are now able to take the leap into the fantasies that they are reading about on their Kindles and Nooks. She can share a sexy scene from a book she’s reading with her partner and gauge his reaction to see if this is something they can try together.

In much the same way, my erotic poetry books allows you to hide conveniently behind my words and yet gives you an opportunity to try some kinky ideas on for size. If the idea behind my poem gets things going, then fantastic. If one or the other of you feels shy about it, move on to the next poem.

Many of my poems take place in the “non-vanilla” arena. Things like spankings, toys, light bondage, Domination/submissiveness all playfully make their way into my poetry. With all the erotic and romance literature that is out there, it is bound to have an affect on the couples that are reading this material.

Fantasies fuel passion. I personally feel that if more people would live out their fantasies with their partner in life, there would be less cheating because the partner seeking sex outside the union is probably needing to fulfill fantasies that he or she is not comfortable sharing at home.

Thanks so much for reading this post! I’m thrilled and honored to be participating in this Book Blog Tour for my book, The Poetic Art of Seduction – The Erotic Poetry Collection.

Seductively yours,

Clarissa O. Clemens

The Poetic Art of Seduction
(The Erotic Poetry Collection Volumes 1-3)
by Clarissa Clemens

A collection of all 3 volumes of Clarissa O. Clemens' erotic poetry book series, The Poetic Art of Seduction, under 1 cover!

An erotic gift of lyrical rhyme to keep on every bedroom nightstand for play. Kinky yet classy erotic poetry painting sexy pictures and scenes with seductive words to read to each other and get the mood soaked in seduction.

What critics have said about Clarissa's poetry:

"...A delicious dance with words..."
"Impossible not to be aroused..."
"...mouth-watering feast of erotic rhyme..."
"...her words ebb and flow with a superb sensuousness."
"5 Stars is just not enough for this exquisite work of erotic art"

78 Passionate poems of seduction are waiting for you to be devoured with lust and desire.

41 Beautifully sensuous photographs have been included to heighten your visual experience with Ms. Clemens poetry.

A must-have for every couple looking for new ways to add the spark back into their flame.

Author Bio

Words have always loved to come play with Clarissa O. Clemens. As a young girl and teen, Clarissa wrote for her school paper and used the written word to channel all the angst and longing for love through her poems and short stories. After her divorce, she again took pen to paper to process all the emotions that were slamming into her head and heart to try and heal, have hope again for love and intimacy, and rediscover the sensual being that had been lurking unattended for many years. After she shared these poems with close friends they strongly encouraged her to find a way to publish them and share them with the world.

In 2008, Clarissa graduated with her BS in Accounting and had been able to land a great job as an Accounting/HR Manager for a private country club. In July of 2011 she self-published her 1st book of erotic poetry from the series, The Poetic Art of Seduction. In addition to her 3 volumes of erotic poetry she has written to date, Ms. Clemens has published 2 volumes of hopeful heart poems in the series, The Poetic Diary of Love and Change; she is currently working on the 3rd volume to be published very soon.

Besides her passion for writing, Clarissa loves to play golf, travel, read, explore music, and spend time with family and friends. Her hope in sharing her poems and written works is to help put passion back into people's lives and rekindle the flame in their hearts for love and desire.


Websites: (erotica)
        (hopeful heart poetry website)

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