Sunday, May 25, 2014
Loving an Alpha Male
Another little tidbit of advice, an alpha male doesn't have to be a dominant, as in the lifestyle of BDSM. I don't crave a man who will take me over his knee when I've been a "bad little girl", although thinking about that is kind of hot. To those that want that, more power to you and I hope you find your 'daddy'. No, what it is for me is knowing when I wake up in the morning, I've got a strong male partner at my side that will fix whatever is wrong in my world.
So what sparked this sudden outpouring of need to explain for my Alpha Male love? I'm so glad you asked! A book review, of course. Let's see if I can cover a few points that really just hit me the wrong way. What's wrong with women that they could want something like this? A man like this is degrading to women! Baby, you're so missing the point. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a woman wanting a man to be her rock. In my case I married a man that could provide for me and my children and your damn straight I "expect" him to be a MAN! I'm sure there are women out there that are content with this "new age" man who bows down to their every whim and is afraid to say boo because his woman might get offended. That's not me.
There are no "new age" men in my books, and don't look for that to happen in my writing. Mainly because to me "that's" degrading to women. If I wanted a female, guess what, I would be a lesbian. I don't, I want a big, strong, alpha male who isn't afraid to call me on my crap and at the end of the day I know he's going to make everything good, no matter what it takes. This to me is a man. I've seen what society is attempting to mold men into today and all I can do is gag. Unless you're gay, and even then you better be the bottom to his top, you want to impress me? Act like a man. Take care of your responsibilities, make sure your woman is satsified, and for the love of GOD don't expect her to let you whine about how hard life is. Grow a set of balls and be what you were meant to be.
Am I ranting? You're dang straight! For the record, I'm raising my little men to be ...you guessed it, men! So some young ladies can thank me later on when they have a husband that they don't have to support, and will be their rock when times get hard. Feminizing men really makes me nauseous, in case you haven't noticed. It's not about being abusive, and the people that think that really need to get a clue. It's about being strong, and a man a woman can depend on when life throws a few fast balls, because it always does.